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suggestion: greif coouncelling my friend it helps.
On the subject of this post - women...you might be moving too fast. I am notorious for doing this...hey...your hot...wanna get married...Cant do that Koolman...gotta give it a chance (although what I say and how it applies to my own life are sometimes different - see my post is he into me??? LOL)...
Listen to your own words in your post "I dont know you, therefore, how can I love you"...good question and how long does it take to fall deeply in love with someone? It takes a moment to want someone and a lifetime to get to know them, but how long to fall in love? Only time will give us that answer...
The guy that I just met...you responded to my post...he told me about a MAJOR life event on our second weekend together. It was good that he did because he needed my acceptance and It gave me great insight as to who he is...so...you need to get to know the person a little bit...decide if you want to get to know them a little bit more and then tell them about your loss...
I think women act more on emotion than men.
Men are funamentally logical in their outlook.
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I can vouch for the fact that men ARE emotional; I for one tend to keep my emotions bottled up until they blow, in some tremendous fit of anger or crying like it's the end of the world. It seems the world expects men to be strong, handle a tremendous amount of responsibility, etc., and it's really, really tough to be that stoic creature all the time. If only men could do more of a "slow burn"...hope this finds y'all well...
When it comes to SEX, it seems men (myself included) tend to be visually stimulated, whereas women tend to be more emotionally stimulated; i.e. when a guy really understands their hearts and souls, that turns them on. Anyone agree? Hope I didn't stir up a hornet's nest on this one...