He is controlling your every move, not healthy at all.

Has he always been like this, or is this a recent thing?

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No.

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yes.mine is very needy too, He does not know this site exists,(I would never tell him)but I work online so he knows I am on my computer alot. anyway back to your question.I cant even got to bed without him I must wait up until he is ready and then we can go to bed.I can get up earlier than him on the weekdays just so I can cook his food and have his clothes ironed for work.and I dont have to worry about anyone here I am 2000 miles from anyone I know.so I know how you feel but htis site is great I have found alot of great people to talk to here

this is a recent thing that seems to be getting worse and no i dont enjoy it there is 1 thg to feel needed or wanted its another to feel smotherd to extent you cant breath thanks for comments tho much needed

girl my ex was like that and I'm so glad to be away form him. they are insecure is what I get from that behavior. There is no cure you either have to deal with it or boot him. I couldn't stand it I'm a human being and need to feel like I have a life of my own to an extent. Computers, friends, work. My husband didn't want me to work and I said no that I will cause I watched an old friends mom's hubs leave. After 17 yrs she didn't know what to do she had no job that whole time and depended on him. She almost died cause she didn't know how to take care of herself.

it sounds like he may have separation anxiety issues....and feels very insecure...he may be developing some sort of phobia....best wishes

A.A. is more important than cock...

hear hear #8

Getting yourself better is far more important than catering to his needs.

Do what is best for yourself babe!

I used to have this problem and I got a divorce. I was losing myself - always accomodating someone wears you down. When do you have time to think? Your husband sounds SO insecure and I doubt that you can do anything to change that. good luck

Thanks for the comments guys will keep talking to him and try and make him understand how im feeling oh 2 rob i never married him 4 his cock as you put it ...

Figure of speech...

oh ok then

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Sounds like Love & Hate collide ?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KV9ve6aUB_s

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No, I never had this problem before. I have never been in a relationship long enough to find out.

I do not mind a guy loving me as much as I love him, and being there for me as strong as I am there for him but I need my space sometimes, clearly it is not healthy to feel like you are suffocating, having him breath down your neck and dictate your every move. If he is insecure and needy, I would like to know that from him, so I can tell him do my bit to reassure him of my love for him and that if he continues to become possessive, etc then he is only pushing me farther away from him and into the arms of another man, so he had better stop!

I am strong-headed and if trying to tell him he has to get over being insecure and trust me...love and support me like I do for him, and he still doesn't change after a set date then I would definitely leave him and the relationship behind, no matter how much I loved him!

But that is just me. x

There is a fine line between love and posession and sometimes that line gets crossed. I find myself getting possessive when my needs are not getting met. I guess it's a matter of people discussing what they want the relationship to be. For me, the ideal relationship is 3-4 days a week together and 3-4 days a week apart, and, when we're together, I require at least SOME close-up heat (casual conversation followed by "OK, hon, gotta go to work" does not do it for me--that's merely a friend). But I can sense when I am becoming this way and I don't like myself when I am this way, so I ask her if I'm crowding her and if the answer is "yes", I go out and exercise or something...