Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
I am not sure of your age, but I could suggest that you call the nearest church and see if you can get a counselor to talk to. It seems like you need a lot of help and a counselor could help you with some of these issues. I would be happy to be your friend, but you have to be careful with the internet because anyone can pretend to be who they are not because we are in the cyber world. I am happy to listen if you want to talk, but I really think you also need therapy that would be very beneficial in the long run. Please feel free to email me anytime and all the best with talking to a counselor to help resolved some of your issues. Please take good care of yourself, you are very valuable and worthy of every good thing in life, and even though you don't see or feel it right now, things are going to get a lot better.
It was a good idea coming here for support as well, as sometimes others in our lives may not understand how we're feeling or may not always be able to be there to provide us the support when we need it.
Another idea is to join groups that lift you up and help you to feel better about yourself. Do you have any hobbies or interests and things you're good at (i.e. sports or creative areas), where you can join groups that enjoys the same? Volunteering can also be helpful in that you feel good about yourself because you're helping others, yet develop a group of people in your life that are kind and caring as well (other volunteers).
Otherwise, hugs to you. And feel free to message me as well, and keep sharing here, as there are a good bunch of people with great perspectives and support here.
All the best.
Maybe that can help!
I think it's good that you reach out to your friends, it means that you are taking steps to make things better. You're looking after yourself.
All the best.
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