i have been seeing someone for a couple of months. We aren’t “official” yet, but are exclusive. At least he agreed to being exclusive, and I am trusting that he isn’t lying. Yesterday, we were supposed to see each other. But when I texted around 11am to ask what time he wanted to meet up, he said “I will call you when I gget back” (back from where he didn’t say). Well the evening rolled around and still no word from him. I finally texted to ask if he didn’t want to meet up. He said that he was still out of town (in a town about 1hr away from his place). Didn’t hear from him for the rest of the night.
This morning I asked what he did the day before, and he said he was at a friend’s bday party and ended up staying longer than planned. I didn’t say anything. But then later in the afternoon I asked if he no longer wants to see me (I said that it was my impression that he doesn’t want to see me anymore). He said of course that’s not the case...that he hadn’t anticipated staying so late at his friend’s celebration.
Now what he did was uncool. At the very least, he should have told me yesterday morning that he was going out of town (never mind that we already had established plans). But my question is, is this a red flag of things to come. Should I break things off, or wait a little longer to see if this is how he always is. I don’t want to waste my time with someone who isn’t serious, but I don’t want to over-react either.
Do I break things off, or give it a little while longer?
CT, USAThis morning I knew the cold was coming, forcasted for a couple of days. The next couple of days Is Crazy!!Today., now is 1 degree at 830am, with a high of 11degrees. Tuesday 20-26 degrees. Wed 41-44.This Is The Crazy!!! Thursday28-((50)) and Friday 14-36.So far this year we've only had about 4" of snow All Winter...worried about what's ahead in the upcoming months!
i haven’t cut in almost two years. A big accomplishment. But I’m so anxious and sad and I feel depressed and I know if I cut I can release some of that. But then I’ll have to guide the scars again and I don’t want secrets. I’ve worked so hard to be able to wear shorts and shirt dresses. Even a bathing suit. I just want to cut but I don’t want to ruin what I’ve worked so hard for