I have been dating this woman for five months now. I thought things were going very well and I feel I am falling in love with her. We talk every night on the phone and see each other once a week. She texts me every night before she goes to bed. But she has not done so in the last 5 days. She has been going to bed early because she hasn't been feeling well, according to her. Last night we were supposed to go out and she cancelled at the last minute saying she did not feel well. Tonight she did not answer the phone. I texted her that I missed her and she texted back that she missed me too. So I called her again and she texted back that she was not going to answer because I TALK TO HER TOO MUCH!! WTF does that mean? She repeated the same message when I said I was confused. She texted me don't get mad. I texted her I was confused and that I missed her and she texted again that she misses me too. So why can't she pick up the phone? What is this thing about talking to her too much? I guess there are two separate issues here. One, if she has a problem why not TALK about it instead of texting. I find that very annoying. Two, I thought if two people really like each other and don't see each other often then talking over the phone should be something to enjoy. I have noticed that she runs out of things to say lately. I do most of the talking. Is she getting tired of my phone calls or getting tired of me? Should I back off or accept that she is not that interested?
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