Someone who is a true friend, through all the ups and downs of life. Someone who is both passionate and patient, and it has to be someone who is mellow enough to not trigger my PTSD. Someone who shares the same values I do and life goals, so that we won't be like two horses hitched up and trying to go in opposite directions. Someone who likes to try some new things and adventures, cuz I can't live in the same routine for long. Someone who cares about other people, the environment and likes nature. Someone who can navigate through life's rough spots and be resilient. Someone who is positive, constructive, patient and brave.

Sense of humor all the way...I love a funny man!!

Kind
Loving
Loyal
Thoughtful
Trustworthy
Not bigoted
High Sex Drive
Intelligent
Honest
Respectful
Not completely vanilla sexually
Non-Smoker
No substance abuse issues
Good sense of humour
OK with my being a Pagan

I posted this same thing last week.

Sense of humor.

Sweet.

Fairly independent, but gets lonely occasionally.

I like looking at her (find her visually stimulating, pleasing to the eye). Doesn't have to be stick-thin (because I'M not stick-thin), but a smooth figure and pretty face, bright eyes, like pools, that I find fascinating to look into and get lost in.

A smooth, soothing, velvetty, dulcet, sexy voice. If we're busy, we may not always have time to see each other, but we can call each other and still get turned on.

Science literate
Enjoys philosophizing
Tall
Sexually aggressive
Muscular, but doesn't need to be ripped out of their/my mind, but weightlifting regularly is expected
Has the spirit of: Will boldly go where no man has gone before
Makes me feel gentle, sweet, and small
Makes me laugh
Atheist
Nearly flawless reason
Eats fresh foods like salad and unprocessed meats
Gracious

...And a bunch of other things...

-Honesty
-Respect
-Good communication
-Loyal
-Sense of humor
-Non-judgemental
-Trustworthy

I'd like to add ENGLISH literate to science literate. Someone who is well-spoken and can write well. You'd be amazed at the people who can't, and, as a result, I have no idea what they're saying, can't relate to them, and communication is labored, to say the least.

i wish I was funnier :(
too logical.

I look for:

intelligent
good financial sense
well spoken, doesnt get drunk or smoke
positive attitude & compassionate
well dressed & groomed
nice teeth & good skin
not hugely over weight

HONESTY

I don't care if he is fat or thin, rich or poor, race, religion, bald or hairy, handsome or ugly, tall or short, political views, whatever-just don't lie to me.

I think Tenobia speaks for most women. And if they are 22 or under, they would probably add "must be under 25" to the list.

Above all else, he must be kind. Beyond that;

Smart
Funny
Financially sensible
Non smoker
Preferably he would have a passion - either work or hobby - I don't care what it is, just do something, and do it well.....