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My boyfriend and I work and live together, which can be hard enough on its own. We actually make it work pretty well though and I enjoy working with him over most other people there.
Our #1 issue is other co-workers trying to cause drama between us. One of my boyfriend's better work friends is a woman who started there several months ago. I know they are friends, I know they talk and hangout sometimes.. no big deal. But I keep getting "anonymous tips" via fake email addresses, phone calls from a pay phone, etc. trying to indicate he is cheating on me with her. I know he is not, but it is just so frustrating!! Why can't people but out and let us be happy.
Any advice or thoughts?
Our #1 issue is other co-workers trying to cause drama between us. One of my boyfriend's better work friends is a woman who started there several months ago. I know they are friends, I know they talk and hangout sometimes.. no big deal. But I keep getting "anonymous tips" via fake email addresses, phone calls from a pay phone, etc. trying to indicate he is cheating on me with her. I know he is not, but it is just so frustrating!! Why can't people but out and let us be happy.
Any advice or thoughts?
And if they are coming from other people than these two, then why does it matter? Are you concerned with what people think of you allowing them to be friends? Maybe it IS a big deal to you and you don't want to seem petty about their friendship?