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Same concept as eating habits in adults, when you eat a diet consisting of clean, natural sources of nourishment without additives, preservatives, etc, the body benefits and performs significantly better.
As for the nutritional content of breast milk, In my opinion that would only be as good as the body it is coming out of.. A super healthy woman might have breast milk that is superior to formula, but if she is a malnourished person who puts bad things into her body, I feel formula would be a better choice.
Just my 2 cents!
Logic AND positive emotion: THAT'S the advantage of breast-feeding! I agree with Sue, the nutritional benefits of the milk versus formula might be negligible, but the mother holding the baby close during feeding, looking directly and lovingly into the baby's eyes, forms a strong, loving bond, that encourages the baby to develop into a well-adjusted human being, who is not afraid to pursue their intelligence and not afraid to love.
Which basically means, if you were an average IQ of 100 (based purely on genetics alone, no other environmental factors-like diet/ disease/ etc..), if you were to breast fed your baby, best case, that might raise their IQ to 110 (probably closer to 105). Which would STILL be the average IQ range!!
Having said that, some might consider me somewhat a militant breastfeeder, because I breast fed all three of my kids a year or longer (my third child much longer than that, and my first two self-weaned while I was pregnant with the next child).
My mom also breastfed me and 4 or my other siblings (back when breastfeeding was considered low class, uncoo-1950-1970l).
My oldest sibling (sister), my mom never breast fed her, and regretted it (not because of the IQ thing, or health benefits, they didnt know about such things back in the 1950s), but mostly because she felt she missed out on the bonding thing, that she observed with other family (aunts and such, nursing their babies). My oldest sibling, has also had the worst weight issues of all of kids (overfeeding)
My dad didn't exactly discouraged mom from breast feeding (and he's a pretty highly educated guy). But back then, again, I cannot emphasize enough, it was considered low class, not a scientifically formulated food like formula (and considered a big hassel-public breatfeeding-gross). But my dad never told he couldn't breastfed.
The notion of public breast feeding being "gross" that unfortunately still happens to this day.
and yup, breastfeeding is still pretty taboo (more taboo than my grandparents day), but not as taboo as it back in my parents day...
MTZ3 makes a very interesting point, and I thought at this point the IQ wasn't very relevant anymore in terms of intelligence... or something like that.
Two of my own formula fed, the boy is finishing up his engineering degree and the girl made deans list,
Course we tend to skew most statistics.....
I also asked a question, and it was overlooked, I wonder whether that was because it was one that was impossible to answer.
Was that the question? I'll say that sometimes intelligence is inherited, sometimes it is not. When intelligence is inherited, I think it has to do with nurturing, encouraging, to read and study, more than blood genetics or nutrients found in breast milk. Babies who are loved are much more encouraged to pursue whatever brilliance they may inherently have. Babies who are not loved quit pursuing whatever brilliance they may inherently have and have a tendency to die, physically and spiritually.