Healthy Relationships Support Group

No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.

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Jennjenn129
Jennjenn129

Quick background on myself since I'm new here. Hate being the "new kid". 


I'm Jennifer I am 23. I was in a long term relationship with a guy I was head over heels in love with, but it was obvious he wasnt. He was extremely abusive, but i was blind to it for years. Any ways, after almost 8 years I finally got myself out of it. That was a year ago, I'm still so broken. I want a real relationship, but am having trust issues and I'm honestly afraid of a relationship.  So I'm hoping this group will help me get to a point where I can be in a health relationship with someone I love and who loves me back. 


Thanks for having me. 

Aronia
Aronia
So proud of you that this ended... I'm sure it is very painful for you.
Don't be afraid of relationships... I think it is fear of making the same mistakes again, picking the wrong person again... fortunately, you can change that and be happy.
Hugs
lucillegem
lucillegem
I am glad you got out of that! just keep in mind the best is yet to come and your own your way to a happy and loving relationships! youll definitly find good support here :) keep coming back ((hugs))
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Welcome Jenn..... .I'm sorry that you've gone through such a terrible time but glad you are now free from it..... Would you be able to get into some therapy?....... That could help a great deal......This is a great site.... I'm glad that you're here......xo
geoyur77
geoyur77
It took work to get out of a relationship, it will take work to meet someone new.
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