I have 3 children from my previous marriage, and I have been divorced for over 3 years. During this time I have been with my boyfriend for over 1 years. He painted a picture for me because he has no children of his readiness and wanting to settle down. He was going to buy us a house and we were looking at homes. Just recently we found out I was pregnant I am 11 weeks now. We had been trying for quite some time and we were thrilled to find the news. We have been having some issues where he likes to go out and drink with his buddies. That issue became a big problem this past weekend when he decided to go out and not come home until the morning. We had a big fight. to the point now he is saying he is not sure if he wants to be with me because the way that I am. I like most women do not want him going out and be out late at night all the time. He has a responsibility to me and now to this child and he needs to learn that. He says he wants his freedom and is not sure now if he wants to continue this. I am upset because he painted this picture and now he is changing things on me. He is more than willing to take part as a father. But, I didnt get pregnant on the intention for him to leave me and raise this child separately. I got pregnant because he had promised me a happy family life together. He basically said he wants his freedom. To me, his drinking and hanging with his buddies is more of a priority than settling down. So I ask what should I do? Should I abort this child? Should I carry and struggle with another child in hopes he will change? What do I do?
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