Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
I live my life by a set of conduct:
Never cheat.
Never ask someone to cheat
Never do or say something that would break a relationship, unless I am certain the other person is being hurt and that I don't have an interest in breaking said relationship.
Never fall for someone who is in a relationship.
(among others)
Now here's the dark and twisted zinger in my life.
I fell for someone really hard and she has a boyfriend... And in my twisted little mind I've devised plans and schemes... I'm affraid of my powers of suggestion, and my lack of control over myself... I would never forgive myself if something happened... I'm probably just overthinking things... But... I'm really affraid of talking with her and not be able to take control over my head...
Never cheat.
Never ask someone to cheat
Never do or say something that would break a relationship, unless I am certain the other person is being hurt and that I don't have an interest in breaking said relationship.
Never fall for someone who is in a relationship.
(among others)
Now here's the dark and twisted zinger in my life.
I fell for someone really hard and she has a boyfriend... And in my twisted little mind I've devised plans and schemes... I'm affraid of my powers of suggestion, and my lack of control over myself... I would never forgive myself if something happened... I'm probably just overthinking things... But... I'm really affraid of talking with her and not be able to take control over my head...
Firstly - if she sheets WITH you she'll cheat ON you. (Yes she will)
Secondly - if she just wants to fuck around, you will have feelings, she won't. That's inviting hurt.
Thirdly - aren't you more important than just a romp in the hay?