Maybe it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship before someone looks outside the marriage for someone to pay attention to them.

Hello, Imjust. Welcome to the forum.

This feeling has whelmed me more than once in my marriage. My husband tells me he has felt it, also. We take it as a cue that each of us needs to work on our own personal development. You can't have a healthy relationship without healthy individuals. So far, we have been happier each time the relationship has drifted back to each other. So far. . .

Gentle support while you find your own way through. Welcome aboard.

Welcome. I second what arfie says. I too have felt this and when discussing it with my husband, it is typically because of my own self worth perception.

Another thing that helps it to take a one night getaway if you can. We book a bed and breakfast in a close neighboring town, plan a nice meal and one or two touristy things or just a walk down the main street. It's just a nice refresh for ourselves.

Welcome Imjust…. I'm sorry that you're going through a rough time right now...

Is this something that you've discussed with your husband?...… Would you be open to getting some professional help if need be?.....xo

It is true that marriage has its ups and downs and there are times when a couple does not feel close. I think this happens to everyone. That is the time to look at things from a different perspective. Woo him back. Plan special times together. Get small surprise gifts. Invest time and effort in him. This will make him more valuable to you and show him that you care about him and the relationship. Most of all pray for him. Ask God to bless him and protect him. The guy who said marriage was work was not kidding!

Keep communicating, keep spending time together, keep finding common ground. I really think it’s normal to go through phases in your marriage where it feels you are not in step with each other, but if it feels more than that for you, like you are struggling with your self, think about getting help.

dont let this happen, time to remember that your best part was problaby was when you to use to talk and share life together . it can be easy to turn off and shut down. this only makes it worse , communication is a must, dont grow apart, grow back together, tell him what you need and find what he needs and do it together again.