Well I come seeking some advice. The relationship I had with my ex -girlfriend was such a disaster left me feeling emotionally drained. I even feel like dating again is completely out of the question, but I know if I don't though I will end up locked inside my room for a better part of my life. I really wanna make things work with a girl so badly. I feel like I have a lot to offer, but learning to trust after things ended so horribly is something that has plauged my mind for around 5 years now. We had a beautiful relationship for 4 1/2 years things were going great for me. Then she moved up north to go to college...reassuring me that we would still be together, and make efforts to see each other frequently. then what do you know? The first god damn semester she is there she finds "the love of her life" (I suppose) and I'm left with nothing, but emptiness. I should've been there more plain & simple, but it's college I don't exactly have two of me that can be there for her, and make sure my tasks are being completed also... She ended up breaking up with me over a facebook message explaining to me how she is moved on from "us" and is happy with a member of her new team.Good for her I don't need someone like that in my life. That isn't the problem though. The problem is how do you handle emotions like that? I felt like I was in a healthy relationship for 4 years, and some change then she desides to up & leave mosey along with someone else. Will this happen to me again? Should I be worried about it? I know everyone is different, but I know it took very little to change her mind about me. I don't want to step into another relationship if I will end up shattered like that again. I cannot handle coming to D.S. to spill out what is left of me. Should I just not take it as seriously? How fair is that to my partner? Should I think about fairness after what has happened to me? Do you see all these questions in my mind? After you've been betrayed it seems like we build up this wall, and no one can come past the wall after someone has infiltrated it depleating all resources of love & companionship...trust... Where do I go from here? My confidence is at a severe all time low I need someone to help bring me back up. I'd like a companion to share the nights with. To talk with when things are incredibly difficult. I miss it... I miss being in a relationship. Especially with Valentine's Day coming up & all the activities that par-take with it. What should I do? Any advice or help would make me so happy. Thanks for reading this too...I kinda don't expect anyone to, but feel free to lend a helping hand to someone who needs comfort at the moment. Have a wonderful evening.
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