Don't beat yourself up, it's not you. If you do your best, and have given him your best, and he doesn't see it.....someone out there will. If his ex-wife hurt him before, chances are she'll do it again.

Sucks...sucks....SUCKS!

You didn't do anything wrong, he made choices. Sounds like rotten choices but choices nonetheless. His decisions are not a reflection of you.

Don't allow the mis-steps of others to jade you. He is wrong in the way he took advantage of you, and now you are left with mistrust, resentment, loneliness, and sadness. He used you and that's a reflection of his downfall and his character, not yours. You mentioned "I wonder what I did wrong". It's easy in times like this to put the blame on yourself, but like I said, his mistake does not reflect the person you are. This situation does not define you.

Allow yourself to grieve and take inventory of your life. Take time to reflect on the type of life you want to lead and what you will learn from this experience. You can triumph in life and can better yourself in spite of this. Use it as an opportunity for growth. You are worth of love and of greatness. Trust in good and good will come to your life.

God bless.

I am really sorry :-(
This must hurt so much... It will get better. You will be happy again.
Besides.. You don't know how this is all going to turn out. There is a reason why they got divorced.
If it is meant to be for you and him, it will be, just not now.

Thanks all. Was having a bad day i guess. I just hate people that suck. :( At least i have you guys here to support me. Thanks again!

OH I am so sorry you are feeling this way. I really doubt that you did anything wrong.
He just made certain decisions and you may never know why he made them.

Try and keep busy.