Healthy Relationships Support Group

No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.

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IS there such thing?

koolman
koolman
As a HEALTHY relationship? If there were, guess we wouldn't hear about it HERE (a support group).

If there are people who belong to this community enjoying healthy, happy, fun relationships, chime in here occasionally to give some of the rest of us hope!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok...I will chime in. I am in the midst of the most amazing relationship. Personal growth, defined boundaries, balance, a love of life and complete joy! Who is this AMAZING person? ME! I realized I NEED this relationship before any other healthy ones will enter my life. It is truly amazing what has transpired since I started this.

Peace, Blessings & Joy to all!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey MangoGirl, How long have you been in this relationship?
onetoomany
onetoomany
I think Mango is saying it is the relationship with herself.

Am I right?
LucilleM
LucilleM
I get what MangoGirl is saying. Be happy with youself first and the rest will come. Stable happy people attract like people. Misery attracts misery. Makes sense to me
deleted_user
deleted_user
@ Goldfish ~ just started ~ long overdue!

@ Onetoomany ~ yes indeed!

@ Lucille ~ EXACTLY! Wow! The changes that have come ~ I am tickled pink over this!!!!
summerbda
summerbda
koolman..I guess the answer is "no"! lol
LucilleM
LucilleM
I think anyone who claims to have a perfect relationship is either telling a half truth, lying or in denial. I don't think there is such thing as perfect but rather shades of happy, miserable and dysfunctional.
koolman
koolman
Thanks, ladies, and I so agree!

Guess I get bored with just myself and my own company...need a little craziness, however dysfunctional, to "shake it up".

I know I like to feel warm and funny, so hanging out with someone who can appreciate (tolerate) my peculiar brand of humor is a must. I can only tell MYSELF so many jokes lol.