The only thing I can say to you is if your b/f is going to cheat on you he will. It does not matter if he goes to any college parties or not. He could simply go out with the guys to play pool at a bar and meet someone and decide to be with him. In other words any place that involves drinking or partying does not always indicate a person is going to be unfaithful. So if I were you I wouldn't focus so much on the type of environment he is in.

I also believe that if you worry so much and talk him out of the places he wishes to go you will not feel any better about your trust issues. The best thing you can try and work on is learning how to deal with all your insecurities. In other words if you focus so much on all the bad things that could possibly happen with your b/f you will never truly enjoy all the good things he has to offer in your relationship.

Nobody likes to be cheated on and the best you can do is feel pretty confident in who you are as a person and watch for warning signs. That is all anyone can really do. In the meantime be honest with your feelings with your b/f and let him know you do trust him but if ever he feels the need to be with someone else to let you know before he takes that action. You will be hurt yes but I also think you will respect the fact he was honest. It doesn't always work he still may go behind your back but that is the risk you take when you are in any serious relationship.

Anyway try and enjoy the relationship you have and really work on not being so suspicious as it won't do you any good. Best wishes to you:)

Thank you so much for your reply. It really helped me, I need to focus on the big picture. We have a great relationship and I spend all my energy worrying i'm going to be cheated on and that's just going to make him feel uneasy and question the relationship.

Hunni, I know how difficult it is, this is a new relationship, you are just getting to know each other, and I know how much you don't want your fears detroying it.
Try so hard to keep an open mind, start as you mean to go on. Let this love you have for him, help guide you, and keep you away from that dark place.
Talk soon!

I think it would be a good idea to work on the relationship you have with yourself. If the core of your self relationship is weak then all other relationships will reflect this.

I also agree with the fact that a person can cheat at a party and they can cheat on the lunch hour. There is no obvious place to cheat.
Your insecurity has something to do with you and those feelings exist with or with out his cheating or a potential party. That is what needs to be worked through.

It is probably a good time to begin the process since there are tons of things that come up in relationship that mean temporary separation. both of you should be enjoying interests apart from one another.

From the way u have described it above, he sounds like my perfect guy and I wish my boyfriend cared that much for me!!!! At this stage, I feel pretty confident in saying he will never cheat on u. However, if u r unable to get past this, theres a good chance later down the track, he will. Your man sounds trustworthy to me!!!