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I really think this guy is trying to gas light me

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fashion
It is a psychology term. Basically he says something, changes his story, and then tells me I am wrong because he doesn't remember it that way.
It is kind of driving me crazy and making me sad. I am interested in him, we say I love you and I mean it but is this something even worth dealing with? I bring my own messed up issues to the table so I'm having a hard time understanding just how serious this may be. Has anyone else experienced this? Can it be resolved?
freakchick3175
freakchick3175
eh, I catch my bf in stupid lil white lies now and then, or he is just nervous cause he's not used to being questioned. but he will say something one time and the next time I ask a complete different story .. I chose to ignore it pretty much because it is something dumb like ...who bought you that watch. . he first told me his brother then I mentioned it again tonight and he said he bought it. .. ok, his ex wife bought it probably. but since that's the past it shouldn't bother me. and its dumb so ill let it slide. plus we have been together for years and I love him.
is this a Guy you've been with a long time... are the incidences of importance or petty things
I know one Guy a friend of my boyfriends I can't stand.. he does that all the time. you tell him grab two packs of smokes, he comes back with one and insists you never said two and damn it he's right. not worth the arguement, it is just who he is. but I damn sure could never date him it would drive me nuts!