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For the past year I have been head over heels for my co-worker.
Yes dating at work is never the best idea and we haven't but at the end of the day I really like him.
It sucks because even at 24 I cannot read a man to save my life. I haven't a clue if this guy likes me. He picks on me constantly and we are known as the bickering old couple at work but darn it I still like him.
I need to get over him though because he'll never be interested in me. But I can't because 40 hours a week he's there.
I go on dates with nice people but yet I spend the entire time thinking about him and how much I wish the date was with him.
So how do you get over someone you have to see and work with everyday?
Yes dating at work is never the best idea and we haven't but at the end of the day I really like him.
It sucks because even at 24 I cannot read a man to save my life. I haven't a clue if this guy likes me. He picks on me constantly and we are known as the bickering old couple at work but darn it I still like him.
I need to get over him though because he'll never be interested in me. But I can't because 40 hours a week he's there.
I go on dates with nice people but yet I spend the entire time thinking about him and how much I wish the date was with him.
So how do you get over someone you have to see and work with everyday?
I am curious why you think it would never work out with him. Maybe it could. Regarding reading men, I can only speak for myself on this. At times I don't want to show too much nterest too soon because I can be risk adverse in this area of my life. If I can tell there is interest from the other person, I am more willing to take the next step myself.
If you do start dating him, there are challenges for sure because of the "co-worker" part, but in my case, it has worked out fine.
Idk if that's an option for you but if it isn't then you're going to be stuck with this guy. Best thing you can do is find a buffer. Hang out with people, do fun stuff, and continue going on dates but that will only help temporarily. It's really going to suck if that's the case but it kinda can't be helped.