Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
sOk so there its this guy who has moved in with the people I'm boarding with recently, and he's so nice and we had these two amazing nights talking and hanging out but then I started getting insecure and selfcosious apologising all the time and trying to buy his love and friendship by cooking cleaning etc but its pushing him away I hate myself how can I be myself and create a great relationship with him when I'm so stuffed up, scared, nervous and pushing him away by annoying him and I can't even get a chance to explain it because all of our other house mates keep on butting in or just never leave us alone. I really like him... I don't know what to do??
When I met my hubby, I pushed and pushed but he saw past that.
I would say "I'm sorry" for the stupidest things.
He just decided that I was worth the wait.
Two days of talking sounds lovely right now, get to know him better.
If he thinks it is worth going for and you do too then go for it!!!
Confidence does help too.
The other mates will get the hints eventually.
ttfn AnnieEm