I started dating this guy a few months ago. He was great super sweet and loving, but has a temper and often will criticize me and how I look if I don’t wear a dress or skirt or “look preppy”. He says I can wear what I want but will complain about it if I do and then get upset when I get hurt bc of what he is saying. He often gets upset if I don’t answer the phone. Even if I text and say I can’t talk. He says I should pick up or call back and say I can’t talk. That would be respectful... what?
Back the the temper. He will get upset over the slightest thing.. and then scream and call me names (bitch, stupid bitch, fuck you, go fuck yourself, you name it). He will hit pillows, doors, his head and chest. Never me. Well twice now he has covered my mouth when he said I raised my voice. Bc he was scared the police would come. I have told him To stop, he apologizes and says he will stop and wants to change blah blah, but hasn’t. He will take the blame and make sure I know it and promise to change, but I have to help him and stop his anger.
Also, he got in a huge fight with his parents. They kicked him out at Xmas and haven’t talked to him since
this isn’t healthy, right?
Hello, my name is Maryam. I have been on this site for a while, but this is my first post. My family lacks communication. On the surface we look very close, but in reality everyone is in their own little corner dealing with their own shit. One of my older sisters got married and didn’t tell anyone, I didn’t find out my dad had prostate cancer until months after he started receiving treatment....
my 21 yr old daughter left home after an argument that got out of hand. We were both at fault - myself more than her (I ended up pulling her hair). Our relationship has not been great for a number of years; mainly due to the fact that while she was living at home she saw no need to contribute or take an active part in family life, and while I obviously was at fault for letting her behave like...