I started dating this guy a few months ago. He was great super sweet and loving, but has a temper and often will criticize me and how I look if I don’t wear a dress or skirt or “look preppy”. He says I can wear what I want but will complain about it if I do and then get upset when I get hurt bc of what he is saying. He often gets upset if I don’t answer the phone. Even if I text and say I can’t talk. He says I should pick up or call back and say I can’t talk. That would be respectful... what?
Back the the temper. He will get upset over the slightest thing.. and then scream and call me names (bitch, stupid bitch, fuck you, go fuck yourself, you name it). He will hit pillows, doors, his head and chest. Never me. Well twice now he has covered my mouth when he said I raised my voice. Bc he was scared the police would come. I have told him To stop, he apologizes and says he will stop and wants to change blah blah, but hasn’t. He will take the blame and make sure I know it and promise to change, but I have to help him and stop his anger.
Also, he got in a huge fight with his parents. They kicked him out at Xmas and haven’t talked to him since
this isn’t healthy, right?
do you think it’s possible to be able to trust someone again after they cheated on you or is it not worth trying to fix it and to walk away?
I had a real bad day yesterday. I was severly depressed for no particular reason. Sometimes I give in and take something that will help me sleep then crawl in bed and stay there hoping that when I wake up the depression will have passed. Yesterday I slept almost continually for 17 hours. I do feel a bit better today, though it took me a while to shake off the physical hangover. Lately...