Healthy Relationships Support Group
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I find it amazing how my mind tries to make my life seem like a bad rom-com. How in the end i'll be with her and the rest is a "happily ever after" text in front of the screen.
She's probably the one person who actually knew what I would do before I did. She knew me and was able to be okay with it. How I reacted to everything... fuck she even knew what I was allergic to. And then there were these stupid flirts we would throw at eachother in playfulness.
But how do you react when suddenly that person has to move on with life and go another country and suddenly the flirts aren't a joke anymore?
I don't resent her, I'm not able to do so, if anything I'm more than happy for her. I'm not gonna say it isn't fair because no one is being wronged here. Both of us have to let go... but I just can't do it. I can't force myself to say goodbye to her and be okay with it.
The worst part is that I can't tell her anything... my conscience won't let me burden her with that for so long...
I'm tired of hearing "if you really love her, then let her go". Fuck that! I don't believe that anyone who has ever been in love would be such a fucking conformist and just abandoned all hope.
I know I have to deal with this. Needed to blow off steam...
She's probably the one person who actually knew what I would do before I did. She knew me and was able to be okay with it. How I reacted to everything... fuck she even knew what I was allergic to. And then there were these stupid flirts we would throw at eachother in playfulness.
But how do you react when suddenly that person has to move on with life and go another country and suddenly the flirts aren't a joke anymore?
I don't resent her, I'm not able to do so, if anything I'm more than happy for her. I'm not gonna say it isn't fair because no one is being wronged here. Both of us have to let go... but I just can't do it. I can't force myself to say goodbye to her and be okay with it.
The worst part is that I can't tell her anything... my conscience won't let me burden her with that for so long...
I'm tired of hearing "if you really love her, then let her go". Fuck that! I don't believe that anyone who has ever been in love would be such a fucking conformist and just abandoned all hope.
I know I have to deal with this. Needed to blow off steam...
I m so sorry you are hurting. I hope she comes back to you.
I'm crazy about someone who has dumped me twice, and just a couple days ago invited me to go out with her, & cooked me dinner... so will this be a third time?
who knows.. hang in there and work for what you want.