I think if you are talking about physical attraction it's just something that you feel

More can grow as you get to know someone and start to really like who the person is, enjoy their company, have comment interests, values etc

I wish you well!!!... Big hug..... xo

Thank You!

If someone has a crush on you, they may act shy or they may make time for you. Special time. They may want to talk to you a lot or more than normal. How you know if you have a crush on someone is you will be thinking of them a lot and fantasizing about them. Imagining scenarios with them, for example. You may feel hot or cold when you are near them, this can be the body hormones kicking in, especially the fight or flight reflex. But remember that crushes are fantasies. As you get to know someone well, and you are observing them and listening to them, you'll feel more at ease and so will they.

Saturday, we went to the waterpark together and I was hanging out with my friends and then he came to hang out with me too. We went to this tide pool there and we all where in tubes and then we all grab each others tubes and he held my hand, but just so he could join our huge tube float. Then we all started to get out of out tubes and he got out of his first and tipped mine over. Then he started to joke around cause he knows I hate feet and he touched my feet. Ew. But, I had a dream about him last night. His name is Tatum. He is 2 years younger than me tho.

I still remember that age…. If a girl gave me any attention I had a crush on her.

Sounds like a playful time at the lazy river but I agree with finallyawakenow. One can’t go around crushing on everyone one meets or let everyone crush on you just because the feel they can.

Boundaries are so important for one’s self. And I’m not judging anyone. We all have the right to choose.

I guess I’m speaking for myself as I can remember my teenage years before I got married. And it was creepy to go crushing on strangers.

Well, I know him. We are friends and we hang out alot.