Healthy Relationships Support Group
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My man never does anything he says he is going to do and it drives me nuts but this time he has gone to far and I am prepared to leave him if he makes it a problem. His truck was broken and he needed it to get the kids to and from school so he suggested I ask my parents for a loan and we would pay them back when I got my tax refund. So they agreed and loaned me the $ to get his truck fixed. Well now he doesnt want to pay them back, talking about I am not getting back as much as I did last year when its only about a $500 difference, and he says that we wont have hardly anything left if we pay them back. I said tough shit I made a promise that I would pay them back with my tax $ and I dont care if I have a penny left your truck is fixed because of them. This is typical of him though he always says he is going to do things and doesn't do it but I refuse to be like that my word means something and like I said if he makes it a problem he will be out on his butt.
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
And it's Your tax return not his.... He's an example that your children learn from
Sorry to be so blunt but I find his behaviour a huge turnoff ..... Good for you standing up and doing what's right.... Big hug.....x
I hope you questioning things with him is the start of you making some serious decisions about ending this sh** show.
If it were me, i'd be considering throwing him out for just suggesting this.
It sounds corny, but I watched this court show once and the judge said to a guy:
" out of all the people you Know for years , your gf, who you knew only for 1 year, was the one who you asked for money. Why is that? Even your best friend would not loan you money, because he knows what kind of person you are"