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Please tell me if im being completely stupid and over reacting.
ok i am an insecure person i hate the way i look.
my partner of 2 years knows this. im a size 12-14 and have lumps and bumps i wish i hadnt.
yet when we are out like last night for instance
he was saying how fit and hot the bar staff were in the pub/retaurant. they were all skinny and really pretty. and it made me feel horrible, and actually upset me i just got up and went to the toilet, i felt like crying.
but he keeps making comments on things like this and its getting me down.
then we went to bed i cuddled up to him and i was feeling horny yet he pushes me away. yet again i go to bed with no sex. and pissed off.
please give me your views am i over reacting
ok i am an insecure person i hate the way i look.
my partner of 2 years knows this. im a size 12-14 and have lumps and bumps i wish i hadnt.
yet when we are out like last night for instance
he was saying how fit and hot the bar staff were in the pub/retaurant. they were all skinny and really pretty. and it made me feel horrible, and actually upset me i just got up and went to the toilet, i felt like crying.
but he keeps making comments on things like this and its getting me down.
then we went to bed i cuddled up to him and i was feeling horny yet he pushes me away. yet again i go to bed with no sex. and pissed off.
please give me your views am i over reacting
The fact that he pushes you away for sex too is wrong. Something is not right there and I would be VERY careful about how far you continue with this relationship.