Hello. I'm new to this site this week. I have a bunch of things going on but I'll jump in with the one stupid thing that's been bugging me lately: so my boyfriend is planning this really fun murdermystery party. Unfortunately it's on a day that I work late (there's no possibility of me requesting off or getting out early) I had asked if he could plan it on a Sunday because I'm off Sunday. He said he would try but he planned it for a Saturday on a night I work late, an hour away from where I work, the day before my birthday (I work late on my birthday too so who knows when I'll be able to celebrate it). I feel really left out because we had talked about doing a party like this for a while. I almost feel unimportant. One thing that really upset me is that he mentioned inviting his ex (who he is still friendly with which is nice but I've never met her) I would feel weird with her being there but not me. I'm really bummed about this. I know it sounds petty but October is my favorite month and I wanted to spend it with him and do fun fall/Halloween things together and celebrate my birthday with the guy I love. But with our crazy work schedules that month it's going to be a little hard as it is. 

This isn't the only time I've felt like he's forgotten about me or felt like I'm not important enough to be a part of things in his life. And even after some of these things he's been like "you should have been there" or "I wish you were there" but he didn't invite me!! I've tried telling him how these things make me feel but it keeps happening. 

I know this sounds so stupid. I have other things bothering me that are much deeper but this is really bugging me for some reason. :/