Healthy Relationships Support Group
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I've been with my significant other for almost a year now, we've been together since November. We had a great loving and friendly relationship. He was always so supportive of me and always there to make me feel so loved. Since summer started I just felt us disconnect. We didnt see eachother much or talk as much as we used to. We just arent close anymore. I don't feel that connection anymore and it makes me feel like theres something wrong with me. He prioritizes almost everything over me, especially weed and it hurts. I know that the drug use is something he's recently been working on, which makes me very proud. I just feel like it's too late for it to make a difference in our relationship. I feel like I lost my best friend. I'm starting to feel very uncomfortable in the relationship due to my lack of feelings. Everytime I've tried to have a serious talk about it he gets mad or upset, which is expected but I feel like that's all we focus on then. Not the actual problem, just how he's feeling. I'm just lost and I dont know what I can do. I know he loves me but he's not giving me the love I need. I've expressed that to him and he just takes it as that he's not good enough for me. I wish I could just tell him what I need in a way that he could understand it but at the same time I just wish I could take some time to give myself what I need and have some alone time. Thoughts??
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
Do not be afraid to set deadlines, consequences, and boundaries. You are not a doormat. If he does not treat you with respect, you need to move on.
I also agree that time alone can be healthy time to reflect......xo
Awesome And stop doubting your self” by Jen Sincero and The Wait by Megan Good and Devon Franklin... just a few suggestions and positive podcasts on my iPhone .., Just to guide you through this trying time .... both of y’all need to figure out somethings amongst y’all selves... you need to know your worth and not expect his behavior... please don’t try to move on with someone else new... “a rebound”.... because all its going to do is hinder you Even more.. trust me ... I know because I been there.... when you start focusing on your self ..... your going to realize ...what makes you happy and rely on your self for your happiness not anyone else ...your partner should bring out the best in you and should be an addition To your life .. not the other way around... I hope my suggest helps and thank you for sharing