Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
--Is it agaisnt policy at your workplace?
--Is the person you're seeing a subordinate or superior?
--Will both parties be able to maintain professionalism?
--Will you (collectively) be able to handle spending so much time together?
--What will happen to the work environment if you break up?
I think the first priority is whether or not it is allowed where you work. You don't want to risk losing your job or creating a hostile work environment.
If you are their boss, or they are yours- then no.
Also, consider what proximity you two will work in.
Personally I've done it, and I ended up being fine with it. I work with my boyfriend of 2 years now, and I actually love it. We keep it quiet around the office, but we do go to lunch together and we are able to help each other out.
I think it has helped our relationship because now I can appreciate what he does for a living. :)
Then it sucks.
It's rough on everybody when there is a break up. The rest of us don't know who to side with, esp. if we like them both or if one is in our food chain...
Also, what happens where there is a family emergency? The rest of us are out two co-workers rather than just one.
don't eat where you shit...