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My dad has had his girlfriend living with for many years. When I needed help, he helped us. He's helped his girlfriend's sons.
When I need help with most of the time it's no, such moving furniture, needing a place to stay and needing a ride.
She has 2 adult son"s living with them in the house I grew up in. My son and I could used a stay with dad years ago but his girlfriend wouldn't hear of it. I'm hurt by all this. I thought family was supposed to help each other.
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
My son is 22 years old here in a few days. He still lives with me since he has aspergers and i need more time to get him going in life.
But even if for example my brother or mother needed to come stay for a while my door would be open.
In truth i wish i had a big enough place to bring my mother to live with me permanently but i don't. I worry about her all the time now since she is starting her fade.
Not all families are that close knitted though. In truth it doesn't make sense to me that some aren't family is forever or at least it is supposed to be.
Family should be forever.. They should care for them in a time of need. I'm sad because my family hasn't gotten together in years. I've been trying to make friends but not much yet. I want a real Thanksgiving and Christmas.
I hear what you're saying.... Is there room for all of you to stay at your dad's place?
If you want some help from your dad, I would talk with him directly and maybe meet for coffee or something just the two of you.... It sounds like his girlfriend makes all of the decisions, is that right?
I hear you re it hurting..... I'm just wondering about their living situation though.... Do that have 2 extra bedrooms?
I'm sorry that you're feeling hurt..... Big hug.... xo
I don't know why my dad doesn't defend us.