LOL! Didn't notice this actual website name til I posted it. Hope this doesn't offend anyone. Julie

That's it!!! I m blocking you.
LOL just kidding
Nice article

Everybody is looking for a person who fits that list.

Reality is... Nobody is all of those things ALL of the time. People are flawed. We have to decide if the Good makes up for the bad. We have to take responsibility for our own situations and not play the victim.

Feeling sorry for ourselves when we don't get our way, Trying to control others and expecting our wants to be their wants... That's the real reason relationships don't work out. The thing is... most people are just too prideful to admit it. Things are only as important as we want them to be.

...I, not having wisdom when young, have attained such now. So, the thing I once was not understanding I do understand now and cannot fall into that same black widow trap; to say!...
...Since I was quite young, the physical beauty allured me along with sex. And everything was fine when I gave her what she sought which was not love but money, stuff, and to be queened!
...Now I know MUCH better...Spirit, spirit, spirit!!!!!!
...What is in that flesh?
...This is no joke...God worked with me giving me heavy duty truths that I had to pass on to those I knew out of love to help them...But, she hated the TRUTH so much she attacked full force and the evil's done without cause or justification were at unbelievable levels!...I did not get at the time why God refused to help me help her...Now I know...
...Those sexy and pretty looking out's were not what was within and the poison that was within is quite an evil I got tricked by...
...Never again!!!...Impossible to be tricked!!!..Too much wisdom now!!!
...I will know if there is a value or none at all to what is within; as this is the only real value anyway's!
...I never thought growing up that one can be pounced by evil for just trying to do good...Learned my lesson!

Very interesting, wcmdjmm.

What sort of TRUTHS did God pass down to you? Maybe they were TRUTHS for you, but not for her.

Perhaps your definition of "trying to do good" was different than her definition??

No woman, alluring or unalluring wants a mate who trys to pass down his TRUTHS to her. We all already had a male like that... and he was our Father.

To have a website tell you that in order to have a healthy relationship you need to be this and that and she needs to be this etc... In my opinion is wrong. If we all lived by this then we would never have relationships at all, nobody would be good enough for anyone. The website put all the good qualities people should have in them, by that standard the only people that can have a healthy relationship are Mother Teresa and Gandhi. We all have an idea of what a healthy relationship should be, but we are all different and everyone has different qualities that can contribute. I think everyone is screwed up in the head, the trick is finding someone that's screwed up the same way you are. Those are just my thoughts. Lol

We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly
There are no perfect people! All have some imperfections, some small, some possibly greater. But, once we learn to love this person and our love grows deeper, the imperfections fade from our eyes. We now see this imperfect person through the eyes of the total person we love and the imperfections, although they are still there, virtually vanish and become we have learned to love the imperfections also. Imperfections are beautiful when we see them through the eyes of love!
These are not my words but I think it sums it up pretty good :)