If a woman is interested, she will usually try to find reasons to be around you. Maybe start conversations to ask your thoughts or opinions... also to hope you may notice her.

Just try to be yourself and maybe just start with small talk. How is she? weather....something else you both my be interested in......

Can to write more about where you are in relation to her now?... Are you dating or in any type of relationship with her?

In short I was homeless December of last year, she took me into her home. I saw it at first as an opportunity to get on my feet. For the first week of living there we spent every second with each other. I helped her out with returns she had to do and kept the house clean for her, a team effort overall. At the end of the 4 weeks things started slowly getting more serious; beginning with, kissing and moving on to a homerun over a time period of two weeks. I relapsed into drinking. We had some arguments; although, anytime we do we talk it through every time. Currently I was laid off a job I only had for a month and am currently looking for work and so is she.

Sometimes people connect in a difficult situations. Some people are givers and feel good when them care for others, but as soon as things don’t fit into the giver’s fantasy world, everything starts to crumble.
When someone takes in a person who is at the lowest low of their life, there’s are consequences that go with it. I m not sure if she was aware of these consequences.
What do you think about that subject ?
Love comes in different shapes and lengths..
what do you bring into the relationship and what does she bring into the relationship?

there are many different ways a woman can express that she loves or likes a man. therefore, it's a bit difficult to say precisely. but for me, if i kiss a man, and have sex with him i more than likely like him. furthermore, if i talk to him about his problems in length, i accept him for exactly how he is, i spend most of my time with him, and etc. then i probably love him. i say just ask her and figure out what it is between you two. all love is different and maybe she speaks a different love language than you do--and all you need to do is find out what it is, for both of you.

Aronia I can understand what you mean about being at the lowest point of my life, and no I do not think she is fully awaare of what she got herself into. I will think about what I bring to the relationship and what she brings to the relationship. On ocean1995's comment, she does do what you describe you do, and I do it as well for her. I clean the house and keep up the house, we encourage each other to do better and to keep pushing forward. If we come to a disagreement we do very well at talking through it without a big blown arguement. There has been at least one over something stupid. She wants what's best for me... yet... she is 37 and I am 30... I am afraid she wants a child and I am so not ready for that.... anyways I thank you all for your inputs.... it gives me something.to think about and look out for and to kinda look into. The whole situation is definatly odd as a whole... she seems to be everything I wanted in a woman and yet... I am not sure this is my first time being with a female at all and going from the streets to living with her and spending all this time with her.... it is like we should already be married pretty much.... anyways thanks again!

She may be in a different stage of life’s wants than you.
You are just trying to figure your life out and it is confusing and stressful.
She may not understand that having a child with a person who is just starting to figure out who they are is not a good idea .
Usually when people end up with an addiction problem and homeless, there is a lot of personal growth to be done to become and stay a stable, secure individual.
Maybe you can tell her something like - I love you and I want to be with you, you gave me a great start to change my life, but I need to work on myself first before I can be a good partner and a good parent. Without that growth, our relationship will fail.
I need you to be patient while I go through this process and not pressure me to move into more serious stages of our relationship.
In the mean time, establish AA group, get a stable job, even if it doesn’t pay much, get a job that makes you feel good about going there.
Establishing a routine is very important for sobriety.
Try to address the problems that led you to the streets to begin with.
We all have a lot of shit from the past , but unless we approach it mindfully and thoughtfully, it will continue to haunt our relarionships, our futures.
Having a partner who is pushy is detrimental to sobriety.
My bf is an addict. It takes years to change.
Sometimes I think it would be better for him if I wasn’t there, because I am a mature, grown up person and he isn’t not ready for me and what it takes to have a healthy relationship.