I had that first feeling about two months ago. She's all I can think about. She's just so amazing. She's everything I could want need and desire. It's crazy yes. It's sureal. It's a feeling I know I will never have again with anyone else. She brings a smile to my face everything I think about her much less when we talk. The scary thing is.... she feelstthe same. Am I afraid of loosing her?? Yes. I believe this is real love. This is my fate. This is everything I've went through to achieve. If I lose her it would tear me up so bad. I remember everything about her. That's NEVER happened with anyone. I knew her bday before she told me. I'm that into her. Ok. Fb had a good role in that but still. Would I look up just anyone on fb and read up about them?? Hell no. That's creepy. I'm crazy about the woman in my life and am willing to do anything for her. Yes. This kinda love can happen.

I have had that....and it did turn out to be too good to be true. But what is love without a little risk?

Yes I had that happen last winter.....then 3 months later I found out he was going to massage parlors with Happy Endings.

Which ended us.

everything about a relationship scares me, especially the ones with chemistry!
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feel the fear and jump right in = divorced there times and on husband 4 the buffoon! x

I know what you mean, because normally I am attractive to the wrong type of women.

As a woman with decades of experience behind her, I can testify that MOST of the time when chemistry is super-strong, the relationship is volatile and doesn't last. Hope your case is going to be the exception! Not trying to rain on your parade. Relationships that grow slowly and are more mellow tend to last longer. But heck, you only live once. Go for it !!!!

I'm always super intense, and the chemistry tends to be there from the beginning when I'm into someone. It seems to happen more often than you'd think! I can't stand the relationships that build as they bore me. If someone is going to bore me, what the hell is the point? I can have more fun on my own. I say go for it and see where it leads you.

Chemistry has to be there from the beginning for me...the more there is the better. I can get bored pretty fast so the chemistry to me is just the first stage...as the relationship progresses there is a deeper connection. But I've never been afraid of chemistry because I'm not afraid of being alone

1Tater,
I like what you say about not being afraid of being alone so you're not afraid of chemistry. I am very much the same. I am fine being alone, so I don't let an intense relationship scare me away.

I've had relationships were we clicked right away, and there was some chemistry. But the more intense relationships, did not become that way until several dates later, and yeah, were pretty rocky. And I don't like that lol. My longest relationships (7 and 16 years), were basically pretty calm, from beginning to end. More my speed...

My dad, on the other hand, the first time he saw my mom, it was love at first sight, he knew he'd marry her some day. They were married for nearly 60 years (with six kids) before they passed away. So yeah, it can happen...

I agree with LivingWater completely. I had a few of these things - same story, same result each time.
My most memorable relationships were with people with whom i felt comfortable, enjoyed their company.. Their presence in my life was mind like having a pair of your favorite shoes - your feet feel comfortable on the same old pair, but where the shoes take you is always an adventure.
These are the breaks ups that are always harder than anything else.
When you are with someone for a long time you frequently say : " remember when we went or did such and such? " They have the same memories you do, they saw want you saw, they remember you being a lot younger..

I wonder if others think chemisty and addiction go hand in hand most of the time.
Seems like has the same effects as a drug high --very good high points with serious lows.
I do believe those less intense relationships--get to know you slowly kind of relationships are the healthiest and longest lasting and more stable.
I think some seek out chemistry because of the good side of it and don't even consider a more stable relationship --it is not intense enough for them.
Good topic.

Anything with a fast start burns out eventually.

Chemistry between two people generally happens when you have come from similar backgrounds, feel immediately comfortable with one another, the conversation flows without stops, you enjoy their company because you have so much in common, and look forward to the next meeting with excitement because the more time you spend, the stronger this chemistry grows.

I think what some have described, is a physical infatuation. It can be compared to running into someone you idolize, who for some reason, finds you as interesting and attractive as you do them. You are physically stimulated by the person to a point where you can't understand your feelings, yet give in to them freely without question, well knowing that something isn't quite right because it's happening so fast, but feels too good to stop. Only every ride comes to a stop at some point, when you eventually reflect back, you realize it was too good to last.

Relationships of this sort are often wrought with highs and lows, and as someone mentioned, it can have an addictive quality. Some are addicted to these highs and lows, and they believe it to be a necessary ingredient for a close and intimate relationship.