Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
We had such a great, deep connection, one like I never felt before.. However, the relationship ended. I'm keeping busy, but I still feel so saf and heartbroken.
The pain will be tough for a while. Try to keep real busy. Freinds and family.
(((hugs)))
I think it fair to say that every failed relationship I've had is one I was supposed to have had. My last relationship ended five years ago, we were together for 13 years, and during that time I never felt loved by ther, and she confirmed it by saying as much just after we parted.
If you are a loving person shelle, then you are also lovable. It is important to be a loving person, because if you're not you're unlovable. There are more loving females in the world than males, and this is a carryover from the cave man days when the woman loved, and the man was the tough guy (he failed to understand that she loved him, who's mistake was that?).
Key indicators of a loving person is that they are respectable, and respectful. They tend to be leaders, but not always so. In the case of a male, his mother loved him but not in a pampering way (my mother loved me immensely, but not intensely, she allowed me to grow up at my own pace and without interference from. My mom is a very SPECIAL mom because she alone taught me how to be a loving male, and believe me shelle, I very much am).
It's so recent though are you sure its over?
Never stop being a loving person, lovable people will continue to hurt you perhaps, but believe me, it is better to be a loving person than not.