People who really want to focus on one person just do it.

Maybe you haven’t met anyone yet you feel the desire to focus on exclusively.

I would just start examining what you do and why. That may give you some insight.

Do you think that you may be pushing people away subconsciously??... Is there anything in your history or childhood that makes you unable to trust?... Big hug....xo

Rmb: I am newly talking to this one guy I meet on a dating app and I just wanna focus on him and not steer towards someone else at same time.
Suncloudjd: I think I don’t wanna get hurt

No one wants to get hurt. But sometimes we do. Dating is a risk. It just is. So maybe you really aren’t emotionally ready to take that risk yet.

Conversely, dating apps are intended to meet lots of people. So if the issue is that you are too tempted talking to other guys on the dating app, while trying to focus on the one guy, then may be consider moving
the conversation with this one guy off the app to email or some other form of communication and stop going on the dating app.

I agree with rmb that you do meet several people on dating apps... If you meet someone that you really like then you can think about a more committed relationship

Both the men and the women on these apps are meeting more then one person and that's how it's intended

Perhaps this would be a good conversation to have with a guy that you like if you've been dating for a while and I also agree then it might be time to stop going to the app...

I hope that you meet a great guy!!... xo

Here's another perspective. Dating apps aren't real - meaning you are only getting the idea of who they are from what they tell you - so if you are "talking" to one man, it is okay to "talk" to another man. It is not like meeting someone at church or at work and knowing their character and personality before you go on a real in-person date. So yes, talk to several if you like and please please don't just focus on one guy like this is going to be "the one." Like in high school you might have talked to a boy in government class and flirted with another in art, and made arrangements to do homework together with a guy from science. It is not cheating to talk to a couple of men on this dating app. I would actually encourage you to not focus only on one but rather be more laid back and let things cook as they will. Like step back and take off the pressure. Do pay attention, do be observant but also know you are not getting the entire picture of who this guy is and how they are from a dating app. Same as they are not getting the entire picture of you. The more you exchange messages, you can focus on what they say and how they say it. The opportunity to use your wisdom. This is just how it works due to the limitations of social media.