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My girl friend went a way for 1 week out of state to visit her best friend. she never drinks with me or anything. but when she went there for a week she drank every day.
one night she sent me a 2am text "doggy style" and thats it.
she couldnt remember it the next day when i asked... and she stalled and laughed on the phone for like 20 seconds... and said she couldnt remember why.. later she told me in a text that it was a question to a game. her favotite position. i dont get why she would send me 1 word. ect...
she was gone 8 days and we got into a few small talks.. notjhing major... just how i feel.
the first night we had sex, its now been 10 days after... and she will not have sex. is this a big deal? everytime we kiss for awhile she'll say goodnight in the middle of it.
i brought it up... she made an excuse ex...
tongiht when she came home she but shorts on and was in a bra..
she never does it// plus she was cold. and she kept lookin at her boobs ect.... weird things she doesnt do.
so when i made a move and started kissing her she said good night again, and rolled over.
its now been... 2 weeks.
also when i started kissing her she shut her eyes for the whole time, and only kissed back if I went to kiss her...
is she mad? do u think she might have something to hide and she feels guilty? I cant figure it out...
shes making me feel unwanted and soo miserable... but she always says she loves me.. and ect
one night she sent me a 2am text "doggy style" and thats it.
she couldnt remember it the next day when i asked... and she stalled and laughed on the phone for like 20 seconds... and said she couldnt remember why.. later she told me in a text that it was a question to a game. her favotite position. i dont get why she would send me 1 word. ect...
she was gone 8 days and we got into a few small talks.. notjhing major... just how i feel.
the first night we had sex, its now been 10 days after... and she will not have sex. is this a big deal? everytime we kiss for awhile she'll say goodnight in the middle of it.
i brought it up... she made an excuse ex...
tongiht when she came home she but shorts on and was in a bra..
she never does it// plus she was cold. and she kept lookin at her boobs ect.... weird things she doesnt do.
so when i made a move and started kissing her she said good night again, and rolled over.
its now been... 2 weeks.
also when i started kissing her she shut her eyes for the whole time, and only kissed back if I went to kiss her...
is she mad? do u think she might have something to hide and she feels guilty? I cant figure it out...
shes making me feel unwanted and soo miserable... but she always says she loves me.. and ect
I hope she will be straight with you and things can be worked out. Wishing you the very best:)
sorry & wish you much luck. aik
she had an abortion 2 months ago, and it happened right after... but i guess it happened again.
honestly i would hope its true.... i feel a little better
but then again she could be lying and making excuses.
im worried she lies because whenever i tell her something bothers me she gets defensive and makes an excuse or reason.
never owns up to anything.
thanks for your input guys... meh what a mess.
its seriously not about the sex. i told her 2 days ago... even if thats all true it would be nice to come home from work and have you kiss me more than the 1 time... and you know... watch tv and be close
Or I messed up and hurt her. I can tell she's different... I just hope she was telling the truth. and i hope she can let this go.
I know in a relationship you should trust your other, especially like my girl.
I guess I've been hurt too many times in the past and can't seem to leave it as that... the past.
Honestly, i just want to be happy with her. And I want her to be happy, and excited to be with me.
I just pray that I didn't permently taint our relationship. I already know she is thinking that my comments about the sex are so "guy like" and thats all I want. just dont know how to fix it.