Healthy Relationships Support Group

No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.

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shelle68 05/28/2014

I don't want to date. I'm not ready to date. I want time and need time for me.

lostsoul72 05/28/2014

Then take all the time you need! Ther eis no law stating you have to date. It took me a awhile before I started seeing anyone after my divorce. The dating life sucks anyway! It unbelievable how many people are messed up in this world .

shelle68 05/28/2014

If I date, then most of the time, the guy wants sex or a relationship.

I don't want either. :-)

RichardRyder88 05/28/2014

I hear you, I'm in that "not quite ready" stage in a lot of ways. BUT being a hermit gets me down.

I'm considering joining a bowling league or pool league just to see humans without having deep emotional ties.

shelle68 05/28/2014

I started doing things with Meetup.com

shelle68 05/28/2014

I would like to travel over the summer, but not by myself.

Shine14 05/28/2014

Hey Shelle-
I think youve posted about this several times before. You dont need to convince us or explain your actions to us :)
Are you perhaps trying to reaffirm this for yourself?

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