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I have been seeing my girlfriend off and on for two and a half years. I am tired she work nights I work days. I only see her a couple days a week, I am old fashion, and want someone to be there for me. I don't want to just see someone a couple days a week. I ended it for four months and she kept messaging me tell I gave in and went back because I was lonely. At first when I went back she messaged all the time, not its fewer and fewer. This makes me so mad and is really messing with my head. I was happier when I was alone, anyone have suggestion on how to end this, and keep her away.
She's not healthy for you.
This is "oh my god she's stalking me" broad?
This is "she says she's pregnant but got rid of it" broad?
TODAY she's YOUR GIRLFRIEND?you said you blocked her number?
Why lie to us? She's s good lay. You know she's crazy but you want the pussy.
I cannot sympathize or provide empathy here.
Why??
I think the only way to get rid of her is have her catch you banging a goat in her garage...
You don't get to knowingly bang a mental chick and then whine because she's mental.
You've lost all right to complain about her behaviors because it's the same actions, same attitude. She told you she was pregnant and got rid of it. How can you look at that and say "yes. Good relationship potential".
Be lonely, man up and accept it. YOU CAN MEET OTHER WOMEN!
Unless she's willing to play the "third" in that scenerio...then she will never leave hahahahahaha
If she becomes a problem, you know what a restraining order is, yeah?
OMG I laughed out loud at that one!!
hahahhaahaaaa!
Seriously though dude.be careful
But yeah, I somewhat recently (last year) went through a similar stalking thing where a woman was seriously messing with my life, sabotaging my relationships and do general stalking behavior.
I blocked her on everything and let her know that I did. These kinds of women don't "get better" till they have no where else to turn to. They have to be alone before they can actually see the problem is THEM and not the world.
Continuing to contact her or react to contact is only enabling her and not helping ANYBODY.
Oh... and a semi-related side question. Do you have a rabbit? if so, change your locks and keep the rabbit close.