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mysteryman73 10/03/2013

I broke up with my girlfriend like two months ago, she keeps emailing me and is trying to get back with me. She tells me this past weekend that she was pregnant with my baby and had gotten rid of it because I broke up with her. Now we always used condoms, and I take med for low t so the meds make it hard to get someone pregnant, so I am pretty sure she is lying. Why would a woman lie about this, I lost a son in 2006 and even thou I am pretty sure she is lying but, why would someone do this.

Aronia 10/03/2013

Because she is an asshole and needs a restraining order.

stillbitterjaded 10/03/2013

Because she's mean.

deleted_user 10/03/2013

Because she's immature, f*cked up, and genuinely stupid?

Hahahah Aronia's answer was better

roseBud23 10/03/2013

I'm sorry to hear about your son by the way.

In regards to your ex... people are capable of being immature and manipulative when things don't go their way.

I'm glad you've ended things with someone like that as they don't deserve anything from anyone unless their willing to change that attitude.

deleted_user 10/03/2013

Sounds like a psycho bitch! I agree with Aronia, she's continuously harassing you and stalking you, time to start filing reports and get a restraining order.

onetoomany 10/03/2013

Dude she is messed up!

Can you change your phone number and email address?

mysteryman73 10/03/2013

She is crazy, its just messing with my head.

mysteryman73 10/03/2013

I blocked her phone number, I might have to change my gmail account.

koolman 10/04/2013

Be...cause she wants you back? And will stop at nothing to accomplish this?

Shine14 10/04/2013

Is it possible shes NOT lying?

Decreased chances of pregnancy doesnt mean impossible to concieve.
Either way, it doesnt matter. Whether it happened or not, she didnt need to tell you - THATS the maipulation.

new2free 10/04/2013

Because she is being sadistic and manipulative. She knows which buttons to push to get at you and hurt you.
Can't you block her emails as well or add her to the unwanted email address list so they go straight to junk mail?

bigguy3 10/04/2013

Sounds like a BS story to me. You two broke up two months ago. She is trying to get back together with you. She comes up with a story about how she aborted 'your' baby as a means of getting back? Wouldn't it have made more sense to say, "Hey, I'm pregnant and I want to get back together with you." .... no, she is using whatever means she can to hurt you. Your lucky you dumped her before shit got REALLY weird.

mysteryman73 10/04/2013

I think she is lying because we used condoms, all of the time and the fact that my doctor told me that Adnrogel makes it hard to get a women pregnant by its self. So the meds plus the fact that we used condoms, I doubt that she is telling the truth.

mysteryman73 10/04/2013

Its not a BS story

bigguy3 10/07/2013

I didn't mean your story .... her story is BS. She doesn't sound like a very nice person.

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