We've been together for 2 years. 8 months ago we installed Safe Eyes on my boyfriend's computer because he cheated on me with a woman he met on a dating site. That encounter took a long time for us to heal. He admitted he could not stop looking even though he says he's committed to me. The Safe eyes program really works. We sat down together and blocked the tempting sites, but it also blocks sites that are innocent. When a site is blocked, he calls me in to unblock it. All the sites he requests to be unblocked are harmless. But he feels controlled, and I want to say 'Oh well!' He's very easily frustrated with computer issues, so he asked (told) me to uninstall the program. And so goes the argument: I told him I felt insecure about doing that; when I go to bed I'll be wondering what he's looking at; and doesn't he care about how I feel. You would think he'd be all over me with reassurances.....nope, nada, not a word regarding my feelings. It was all about him, how controlled he felt and how frustrated he was when he couldn't get into an innocent sight. This morning has been a little 'chilly' because I"m still waiting for him 'to get it' I'm feeling a little stupid and duped.
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