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woodstockthe3rd 03/08/2015

So, I recently, I have been having a lot of these crazy dreams about my husband cheating on me. I am not sue if it is a subconscious fear of him cheating on me, as this has happened with many of my other relationships. It was even more strange to me that one of my husband's ex's sent him a texts on Friday wishing him a happy birthday (they dated in high school). In our entire time together she has never texted him until then. Then I had a dream about my husband cheating with her. He laughed when I told him, but has anyone had similar things happen like that?

foundlove 03/08/2015

I had nightmares towards the end of my relationship with my ex. If you feel like something's wrong in your guy, listen to yourself.

koolman 03/08/2015

Dreams are manifestations of subconscious desires or fears. Until they're backed up by real, waking evidence, they're just dreams. I'd go on about my waking life, can't be paranoid, but do be mindful, of clues, that point toward infidelity.

jaymee4647 03/08/2015

I do some innocent recon of how many times they've texted oversee the last three months Just look at your phone bill

stressedguy 03/09/2015

I agree with Jaymee. That's how I caught my ex wife once

MTZ3 03/09/2015

Not sure how I feel about dreams, sure I think they can reveal things going on in the unconscious, but most of my dreams (I believe), don't mean much. At least not to where I can understand them. I dunno.

However, given your situation, to be honest, I'd probably do a little investigating. Not over the top (that will drive you crazy). I do think it's strange the ex texted him happy birthday, after not being in contact with him for years. I think there is more to that (more back history). That they reconnected someone else prior to that text (like facebook).

Lenoire 03/10/2015

Yes, I've had someone laugh at me too when confronted with the truth.

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