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OldCodger 04/02/2015

That when it comes to critical problem solving females and males rarely agree with each other?

Aronia 04/02/2015

I don't think it is true. I work in environment where there are ciriticak situations on daily baisis and we have to solve them as a team.
Maybe your experience has been such that you are dealing with persons who are unable to work in teams or habdle critical situations well, irrespective of gender?

CopingJust 04/02/2015

you may need to provide an example.........cos generally, I would disagree with your statement.

OldCodger 04/03/2015

Re my happiness for instance, my ex says I would be if I replaced her with someone else, whereas I'm quite content being on my own

Who is right, she or I?

koolman 04/03/2015

You're both right...and you're both wrong. She's right for her...you're right for you. Sounds like you understand her point of view, but she does not understand yours. Was that the cause of the demise of your marriage?

OldCodger 04/03/2015

The demise of our marriage came as a result of her withholding important heinous information from me, she would alternatively say though it was because of something else, namely me no longer being prepared to enable her which was true, and it was the reason why she left me.

The unfortunate thing about my ex is that she stinks, and since our demise one or two others have agreed with me.

CopingJust 04/03/2015

that's called projection. nothing to do with critical decision making skills....

onmymind2000 04/03/2015

I was going to say what copingjust said - this doesn't qualifty as an example for critical decision making skills.

foundlove 04/04/2015

When it comes to knowing what will make a person happy, the only one who knows it you. Everyone else can make an opinion, but in this case I think neither person is right or wrong... it is just both of your opinion. The opinion to value is yourself because deep down you know what's best for yourself.

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