I was googling myself to death and can not get ANYthing on the subject. I have read everything you guys said about it as well as the other site you had a link to where the BS does either "I hate sex" or becomes the "sex Goddess." I did the sex goddess thing, competing with the OW for two years now. My husband obviously LOVES this whole part, but I think it is affecting him too, in the sense that he is not quite where I am at, and it is creating fears in him. I would think it is normal, but he keeps looking for physical problems and is not willing at all to admit that this whole affair and porn watching for years might have an effect on him sexually now. After MUCH discussion he does seem to accept that a very very very tiny part might (might, not definitely) have a very slight effect on him now. I went looking for proof of other Cspouse's but could find nothing. Has anybody else experienced intimate problems from the cheating spouse's side at all?
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