Healing Infidelity Through Faith Community Group
A place for those experiencing infidelity, rebuilding from infidelity, or dealing with the aftermath of infidelity, both unfaithful and hurt partners, and to be free to express how our faith, primarily Christians but others are also welcome, has or is being used to deal with our issues and hurts. All posters are expected to be respectful of each others faith experiences...
Last night, my H and I had dinner with one of my husband's friends. This was the first outing with a friend of my H's since the A. I had met the friendly previous to the A happening, but last night I was almost uncomfortable seeing him. Is it normal to be paranoid about what his friend is thinking in regards that I stayed with my H? We hang out with mostly my friends, who are completely unaware of the A. Its nice because my H and I can act "normal" in front of them. But last night, in front of my H's friend I was uncomfortable. (Side note. . . I over analyze things lol). While at dinner I was thinking to myself. . . is John (not his real name) wondering why I stayed with my H, does he think I am pathetic?, is he nervous to say anything that might offend me?, etc
Of course, nothing I was paranoid of happening actually happened. We had a great dinner with John and I never really needed to worry about the A or anything close to it being brought up.
I am just curious if I am completely off my rocker here or if others have experienced this before as well.
Thank you!
Of course, nothing I was paranoid of happening actually happened. We had a great dinner with John and I never really needed to worry about the A or anything close to it being brought up.
I am just curious if I am completely off my rocker here or if others have experienced this before as well.
Thank you!
I guess I get a lot of practice at it, since we have a book out so most anyone potentially can know about our story. Like, I have no idea how many at church aside from our priest knows. I know of three specifically, but the rest might know or be totally oblivious. So I don't worry about whether they know or not, usually. Or if they do, what they think about it.