So sorry for what you are going through.....it's so unfair. We don't get to be "excited" like the traditional grandparent.......we have our emotions thrown into a blender filled with "what-ifs" & "God, PLEASE!!" I cried when I was told about my 1st GS becsuse I knew my son & the mom were not ready for a baby & I was scared. Then when my daughter got pregnant it was basically the same issue, only I thought she was going to choose abortion so I fasted & prayed for God to save him, & thankfully He did!! I can imagine everything running through your mind. God bless you with a peace tgat only He can give you. Big hugs.

I agree it's sad that we cannot be excited about being a grandparent because we know what kind of life the child will have. I do not believe in abortion and when my daughter had her last child she wanted me to pay for an abortion. I refused. Now another child with no mother being raised by her drug addicted, criminal father who just recently got out of prison. I did give my daughter money if she got her tubes tied. I knew the money would go to drugs, didn't care as long as I was saving another child from the life of hell with a mother like my daughter. I am so glad she cannot have any more children

Just too angry. Dd not drug addict , but I do she she's borderline personality. Talking all this crap to the kids about getti g on her feet and raising them . Heard that for 7 years with the oldest , the 4 yo wants to live with mommy, the 7 yo misses mommy, you gave me custody of 4 yo to get on your feet and ow your pregnant with another child you cannot support . Bf wants the baby and the mom but she ran off last night telling bf ts not his and she's going to adopt it out. He is young but in the army and his biggest irresponsibility act is getting her pregnant . Hey stupid she's not raising hers and you thought she'd raise yours??? She better carry her fool self back to him cause I have nothing left to give and these kids don't even need to know she's pregnant. Not telling my husband until after next weekend as I don't need more drama when it's gd birthday party on 14th. I am beyond furious. She can't pretend she doesn't know what causes this and she hasn't been using any bc at all!!!

I'm so sorry. Praying for that baby. It's horrible the way they just keep having children with no regard for these little lives. Praying for you.

If it wasn't for my other two sons, I wouldn't know the joy of being told I was going to be a grandmother. My DD should have never had children, I think about how she wanted an abortion for both the kids I have adopted. I think God answered the prayer for me to have more children. DD doesn't use birth control, she uses abortions, average one per year for the last 7 or 8 years. She was in CPS with the kids I have now and found out she was going to have another. I came out and told her get an abortion because I'm not raising anymore of her children and I didn't want her around us or the kids if you keep it. The state has her black listed I'm sure and would have taken that one at birth as well.

I know my limits and I can't take on one more child and I didn't want the kids to feel they were less of a child if she did manage to keep it. She know's she is done with children in my eyes and she can keep having abortions or use the pill or get fixed...

that's a lot of abortions. I don't understand why these women don't get
sterilized. Makes no sense whatsoever. Abortions can't possibly be "easy" on them. I just can't fathom what is going through their minds!!

Gma, Yep and she came back from the last one saying her uterus is falling...Gee I wonder why? There should be a limit, and to try and fathom what is going through their minds... that's a black area I don't even want to touch!