My ddmom only has supervised visitation. Her sister is babysitting today, due to daycare issue. DDmom calls me complaining, her sister is crying because of breaking up with a boyfriend. Ddmom says if she is going to be doing "all the work", taking care of a 23 month old, that I should pay her instead of her sister....Because I am a pacifist who is trying to do my job at work, after I told her she should be supportive of her sister, sometimes its not only ddmom who needs emotional support, then I told her I would pay her for today. She starts whining about being paid for yesterday, claiming her sister didnt do as much as her. I told the immature jerk that I'd pay her for yesterday as well, as long as she pays the normal daycare lady for the rest of the week. She got mad and hung up. She doesnt pay any child support, no job, I pay 500 a month daycare and this is such typical self-obsessed crap. She's moving out in 2 weeks, I can't wait. How can they not know how much resentment and anger they are causing. I don't want to hate my own daughter. I have NEVER used the work hate towards anyone in my family since I was 12, but it's starting to creep into my thoughts.
Meanwhile, sister/aunt is still "supervising" so maybe someone should pay for that service..........