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There are many quotes in the article about us grandparents stepping up because we were "financially secure" and "retiring early", etc. What a joke!
I live on poverty income, am a single grandparent, and have to work to support us both, as do many if not most of the grandparents I know! (IF I could manage to find a job). I have three at least strikes against me! 1) AGE AGE AGE 2) raising a toddler (People don't like to hire women with toddlers or young children - too much missed work due to illness - this is a proven statistic) 3) I have been sole supporter of my own 3 children, so took whatever jobs I could over the last 7 years so we didn't starve, places closed where I worked (2) and I've had to completely reclimb the employment ladder in my late 40's. Do you know what that looks like on a resume??? All they see is that I changed jobs 4 times in the last 7 years. They don't even look at why. *sigh*
I'm having trouble in this economy, despite all of my skills and knowledge and experience, finding even part-time employment. No health insurance. Don't know how or when I'll ever be able to have that again! My income is like 200 a month over the limit to receive it in our state. lol. That's with unemployment. Once unemployment is done, I"ll qualify easily! :) IF there's any money left by then.... people do get turned down around here due to lack of funds.
*sigh* Where is all of this in that article??? Sorry - to me it just patronizes the horrible struggle we have and candy-coats it. It's pure propoganda IMO.
Hit one of my bandwagons - media and truth
Thank you for writing.
You have a very interesting story. But I feel like we might have done
an article along these lines before. Let me take a look in our
archives!
Jenny
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All of her contact info is there if anyone else feels so inclined