I noticed that the daughter in law has been calling a lot the past few days not to speak to child but to her ex. Then I heard him tell her yesterday "no way in hell" if my husband and I are paying the bills you get no privacy so i ask. She and her current bf have lost their car and the power is turned off.She ask him if she got him a job and a place to live would he consider moving where she is. Doesn't it sound about par for the course, i have him in treatment here, working part time for the county and doctors told him yesterday that they think he may be manic and with his graves disease it causes his reasoning to be off when he screws up such as two weeks ago. I understand the graves disease cause i have it to and it messes with your mind bad, if your thyroid levels are not right it causes great depression. I told him he it was his choice but if he walks out the door and goes where she is which is seven states away he gets no more help from me or his other parents. The help and picking your butt up everytime it falls is over. He is now getting some help to put all of this in order, goes to counseling three nights a week and i will not step backwards with him. His response was I told her no way in hell but we have heard that before.If he goes GD will stay here and be completely cut-off from them, i promise that.