Grandparents Raising Children Support Group
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Stay strong!!!
God Bless and hope all works out for the best.
My step sister gave one of my other sisters a cell phone so she could have her number switched to it because hers was stolen.My step sister took the sims card out before giving it to her.When my sister took it to the phone company to have it activated they refused to do it because the serial # was gone off it,so she ended up buying a new one.When she got home she was downloading some music from the phone that step sister gave her onto her new phone and some how came across some videos of my step sister molesting her own 13 year old daughter.apparently she thought that removing the sims card had removed the videos.Any way my sister took the phone to the police and showed it to them and now they are looking for my step sister.The detctives had asked us to not tell anyone about what was going on [ I was the only one my sister told before she went to the police] until they could arrest her.When they went to her work to pick her up she had already left and they asked that no one let her know they were looking for her but apparently some one tipped her off and now she is on the run.The daughter is back with her father who has custody.
The police found out that she had been sending the videos to he bf in Florida and may have also been put on the internet.The bf had recently send the daughter several hundred $ last week.The investigator also said that this did not seem to be the 1st time this had happened from what he saw on the 7 different videos that were on the phone,all were dated the same day.
My step sister is very mad because my sister reported it and now is making death threats on her.My family is so upset and worried about both of the girls.My step sister has said tha tshe will not let them take her to jail.To make matters worse she kept 3 of my other neices [ages 6 & 7] at different times over the summer.Now they have to be taken to someone to see if she did anything to them.
Please keep us in your prayers,my family really needs them right now.My step father is 75 years old and is taking all this really hard.
Just the other day I had lunch with an old friend who's a psychoanalyst. We were talking about the fact that no matter how "normal" someone appears, you never know what they're like when they think nobody's around. We started the discussion because my husband, like his son, was a tractor-trailer driver. Many times (more than you'd think), extremely well-dressed executives pull up alongside of the cab in Mercedes, BMWs, etc., turn on their dome lights, and proceed to do all sorts of sexual things so the truck driver can see it.
I started the conversation by saying, "that guy then went into his office and said hello to the receptionist and everyone else -- and they had NO IDEA what he was doing on his way into work!"
Makes you wonder about this world, doesn't it?
Anyway, mamaw, I feel so terribly awful for your family. As you may recall I have similar history in my family and it is a horrible thing to live through with lifelong consequences.
I had posted something about this world and how bad it seems to be, but your other thread has come up and I guess I said most of it on there, now.
God bless you all and I am praying for everyone involved, especially your stepsister's daughter.