I am so angry!! My GD sat at the dinner table last night and asked my husband if he was going to miss our dog when she went to live with her Mom. He gently asked if she was planning on taking the dog with her and where she was going to keep it. Her Mother told her that she could go live with her in about six weeks, which is a lie, because we go back to court June 4th for full custody and my daughter has agreed to sign the papers. My Gd also informed me that her Mom said she and my older daughter were going to get a bigger house together, so there would be enough room for all 3 of my grandchildren. In fact my older daughter is going to kick her out because she doesn't have a job and is partying all the time and doesn't come home at night. Why would she tell this child all these lies? This child wants to have parents like all the other children. It's really hard on her when her friends ask where her Mom is.(this happened recently) plus her Mom has warrants on her and it's just a matter of time until she goes back to jail. How many times does she have to get this childs hopes up, only to dash them? She has made no effort to straighten her life out so someday she can raise her child. When she tells my GD these things we have to try to deal with the fallout. We have decided there will be no more overnights with Mom if she's going to fill her head with these lies. Visitation is up to us right now, and I know it's important for my GD to see her Mom, but not if it is going to hurt her emotionally. These parents amaze me! I just can't believe they even care one iota about they're children. I'm so sick of dealing with this kind of crap! Sorry just venting. what do any of you think about this?
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