Tomorrow I have an apointment to set up visits for my daughter to visit witht he boys in a safe program. For the last 4 years I have supervise all visits even in rehab. It is not safe for me to have her in my home any longer. She hacked into my email and changed my password I found out that she is using again. She has stolen from me so many times. I refuse to let it happen again. She also causes drama when she comes over. I am worried and releived to not supervise the visits. My 4 year old will not like me leaving him there. She really doesnt care to visits with him but the program director says that if they both are listed in the court papers they must both come. She will not be able to handle both for 4 hours. The only reason she gets to see them at all is because my 8 year old wants to see his mom. My 4 year doesnt even know her has his mom I have had him since he was 2 months old and he calls me mommy her the other mommy. Because my 8year calls her mommy. My papers state that I have to agree to the visits I am hoping when they see them they will make an exception. feeling uncomfortable.