Grandparents Raising Children Support Group
This community is dedicated to grandparents who are the primary caregivers of their grandchildren. In cases where the parents are not willing or able to provide adequate care for their children, grandparents may take on the role of primary caregivers. Join the support group to find support, share your experience, and get advice from other members.
Hope4Delaney
We had the final court hearing this week for the Order For Protection we helped our brave GD get against her mother. She was granted an emergency ex parte OFP in August after we spent an entire 8 hour day at the Domestic Abuse Help Center at our government center. A wonderful advocate helped our 16 year old GD through the process.
At the 2 week hearing bio showed up and refused to agree with the OFP so the final hearing was set for this week.
Bio did not show up. But we had the most wonderful Judge! She told my GD how brave and strong she was, how none of this was her fault but was the fault of the people who were paid to protect her!!!!! The Judge was very upset that CPS has known about our GD's abuse and neglect her entire life, yet returned GD to bio at 7 1/2 years and let her suffer 9 more years of abuse while receiving reports from me, neighbors and 3 different police departments! She gave our GD a 2 year OFP, which GD requested.
After we left the court room, my husband had tears in his eyes and said "Where was this wonderful Judge 9 years ago?" Shortly after returning home, GD fell asleep until I woke her for dinner. :( The poor thing was emotionally exhausted from testifying and so relieved!
At the 2 week hearing bio showed up and refused to agree with the OFP so the final hearing was set for this week.
Bio did not show up. But we had the most wonderful Judge! She told my GD how brave and strong she was, how none of this was her fault but was the fault of the people who were paid to protect her!!!!! The Judge was very upset that CPS has known about our GD's abuse and neglect her entire life, yet returned GD to bio at 7 1/2 years and let her suffer 9 more years of abuse while receiving reports from me, neighbors and 3 different police departments! She gave our GD a 2 year OFP, which GD requested.
After we left the court room, my husband had tears in his eyes and said "Where was this wonderful Judge 9 years ago?" Shortly after returning home, GD fell asleep until I woke her for dinner. :( The poor thing was emotionally exhausted from testifying and so relieved!
SaraBT
Hope, I'm SO happy for you all! Finally a permanent resolution, and I hope your granddaughter can begin to heal. Is she in counseling?
LucilleM
I'm so thrilled for your granddaughter and your family. What a brave girl to go to court and I'm so sorry that your granddaughter suffered so much abuse and shame on CPS for returning her for 9 more years of abuse. Good that everything turned out well in court.
Hope4Delaney
Thank you Sara and Lucille. I am so thankful to this wonderful Judge for empowering our GD.
daisydduck
I'm sure you are sleeping better with this stress removed from your lives. You might want to speak to a lawyer about suing CPS. With judges comments and decision you may have a case and could secure a financial reward for your and a case like this could force CPS to improve their service. For now enjoy the peace you have earned. God bless.
grammy22
Finally, That sure took long enough but it is over.
spacekat
Hope, congratulations on the ongoing custody battle. It sounds like a bear!! And life for your granddaughter's life - thanks to you! Hope, like a few other people, you make the world a better, brighter place - thank you!
redheadfrog
Congratulations. I hope you pursue going after CPS, absolutely unacceptable they did not do something sooner!
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